I’m back…sorta.
Where do I even begin???
The past three weeks have been an absolute blur. I blinked and before I knew it, I’m back from Rwanda in the comfort of my own home, going to work every day.
I really thought this transition back into normal life would be easier but I never imagined I would struggle with it like I have.
I knew the jet lag would be bad but my body has had a really hard time adjusting back to the six hour time change. On top of an already busy two weeks in Rwanda, the 30 hour travel time {17 of that being on an airplane} was exhausting. Every night, I’ve struggled to stay awake past 8:00 but I did make it to 9:00 last night {whoop, whoop!}. Even though I have no desire to return to my normal life, it would be nice if I could at least stay awake in the evenings to get some things done like laundry from our trip or heck, even just to unpack my suitcases. Not to mention, the state of our house is a train wreck.
What I didn’t expect were the emotions of coming back home. I had a extremely hard time leaving Rwanda {think bawling like a baby as the plane took off} but I didn’t think I would be experiencing the same emotions when I got home. I’ve found myself crying when I leave the dogs, crying for Rwanda, for the children, for my second family there, but most importantly, crying because I’m spending my days at work {for no other reason than to provide more for myself} when there is so much work that needs to be done in Rwanda.
Last year when Cory boarded his flight to Rwanda, I thought that sending a piece of my heart around the world was the hardest thing I’ve ever done but little did I know that a year later, I would realize that leaving a piece of my heart there would be even harder. As you can imagine, even though I’m physically back in South Carolina, mentally and emotionally I’m not nor do I really want to be. I said it earlier that I have no desire to return to my “normal” life and my heart aches to be back in Rwanda with all the beautiful people we met. But for the time being, I know that God has placed us exactly where He wants us and until He tells us we are supposed to be somewhere else, right here is where we’ll stay. I promise you one thing though, I will never be the same Paige I was before we left.
I’m hoping my body/sleep schedule will return to normal this weekend and I will be able to start recapping my trip. I’ve got so much documented in my journal and over 2000 pictures and probably close to 100 videos {that doesn’t include what Cory has on his phone}, so obviously I will break it down by day because I don’t ever want to forget any detail. I also have my Fall Home Tour to put together.
Please bear with me the next couple weeks as I try to readjust back into the blogging world and if you don’t mind, say a little prayer that being here rather than in Rwanda gets easier as time passes.
Have a great weekend. y’all!
18 Comments
Rachel G
I know how much returning to America can suck when it’s not where your heart is. Even right now the thought of having to go back to America for any reason would crush me. Sorry, I’m not the best at encouraging–but I’ve been exactly where you’re at right now, and mostly I’m so happy that after years of it, it’s finally time for us to be back where my heart has been for so long.
Paige Sloan
I’m so happy that you guys are back where your hearts belong. It is absolutely crushing but just having someone else know what I’m talking about is the best encouragement :)
Maggie@ POlka Dots in the Country
I’m so glad you’re back safe and sound!
It sounds like you had an amazing time in Rwanda, I can’t wait to hear about it! Enjoy your weekend girl!
Paige Sloan
Thanks, love! Amazing doesn’t even begin to describe it!
kristen
sounds like you had an amazing time, and i can’t even imagine how hard it must be to go somewhere like that and then try and come back to normalcy. hope it gets better soon!
Paige Sloan
It’s been a struggle but day by day, it’s getting easier!
Rebecca Jo
I can’t even imagine getting my body back in schedule… that will take time.
I always hear that when people have to leave those babies, its life changing & your miss them so much… praying your heart finds peace about that & focuses on the amazing difference you made in your time over there!
Cant wait to hear more!
Paige Sloan
Thank you for the prayers! We don’t have children of our own but I felt like I was leaving my own babies over there. Prayers and really focusing on what I can do here and now have really helped make the transition easier :)
Katie Elizabeth
SO glad you had an awesome trip! I can’t even imagine what the transition back into normal life would be like after such an eye opening experience… but you have it all right — just trust in where God has you right now :) Can’t wait for your recaps!
Paige Sloan
Thank you, Katie! The transition is slowly getting easier and I’m about ready to start recapping!
Jennifer Green
Looks like you had an amazing trip. I can’t imagine how hard the transition must be, but I’m saying a prayer for you right now, and for all the people you touched in rwanda!
Paige Sloan
Thank you for the prayers! Day by day, it’s getting easier :)
Brittany @ PerpetuallyDaydreaming
Welcome back! Sounds like you had a wonderful and powerful trip. I can’t imagine how rewarding it must have been and how hard it is to come back to everyday life! Hang in there!
Paige Sloan
thank you so much! can’t wait to share the trip with you guys!
Lisa Loves John
Amazing, paige! I hOpe your transition is going ok – God has done a huge work in you while you were there, so transitioNing back To a life that didnt change while you were gone can be toUgh!
Paige Sloan
It’s been a rough transition but we are slowly adjusting.
Julie Joy
Awww!! This is the sweetest post! I really hope that your transition is getting easier! I can’t imagine the feeling of sharing your heart with people that need you and then having to leave them! It’s great to know that your worries beforehand didn’t cause any concern and I am sure that god was there for you to guide you and I know that he will do the same with your heavy heart and love for Rwanda! :)
Paige Sloan
Thanks for the encouraging words!